If you are just a few minutes, days or weeks after divorce, you need advice. There are some things that will bring you peace and joy, a better state of mind, if you accept them. The things I am sharing now will make it simpler for you to recover and move on and to live your life as an accomplished and fulfilled man.
Pictures And Videos From The Past – Are You Sure You Are Keeping Them?
Most married couples have a lot of pictures and even private videos. Pictures might include the times you date, the time you got married, children, common friends, traveling and many other memories. Many couples even have videos of their holidays or even some intimate moments.
What I need to tell you is a sad, but real thing: the more you look at them, the worse you will feel. Even if they seem innocent pictures and videos, they might hurt you deep inside. You should ask yourself: will I go better through life with or without such materials? If you decide to keep them, or at least part of them, make sure to not look at them daily or in times your don’t have restored emotions. It will only keep you back from meeting other women and moving on as a prepared man for a new life.
For other people the only good solution is throwing them away or deleting them (if they are on a computer, laptop, tablet or other devices).
Best Friends Of My Ex-Wife
The idea of dating and asking out the best friends of your ex-wife is something you may feel tempted to do. You will often feel something like “man, that woman is amazing”. While such thoughts hit your mind, you need to put yourself into your ex-wife’s position and also into the position of the woman you laid eyes on. How would she feel about dating you? Would she be able to keep her relationship with her best friend, the woman you left (or the woman who left you)?
You should avoid accepting a mentality like “it’s not a big deal.” Everything can turn into a big deal if you don’t pay attention and don’t put your mind onto understanding the depths.
In other cases, you can find yourself in a situation that reveals that your ex-wife doesn’t care and doesn’t feel hurt, her best friend likes you a lot, and then you can date her. But be warned: this rarely happens with such ease!
Internet Dating
Another common source for new dates is the internet. It can be social networks, dating networks or any other places in the huge virtual world that is called Internet. When meeting women on the internet, don’t rush to fall deeply in love just because she is pretty or apparently has some qualities you wanted her to have. Make sure you have free time to meet her personally, to take her out and to make sure it’s truly the woman you expected her to be.
Also, it is (and it never was) the best approach to dedicate all your free time to chatting with one woman online, and jump on her virtually whenever she is online. In such cases, she will notice how desperate you are and will refuse you. Be calm and relaxed, and women will rush to you!
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